In a relationship, there will always be difficulties. And it’s completely normal because of the differences between the two. However, there is a line that should never be crossed. And it’s the respect that’s in the couple, if she insults me, humiliates me, or hits me, she has crossed her completely.
If in the relationship you are in you ask yourself questions like these: Why does my partner blame me for everything? Why does my husband always keep me bitter? Why does my husband or boyfriend treat me badly physically/verbally but tell me he loves me at the same time? You are suffering from physical and/or psychological abuse.
It is important to detect this type of abuse in time to stop it. But remember, it’s never too late to do so. Always taking the greatest possible care, everything will be possible.
Below we’ll talk a little more about what to do when you’re humiliated or physically attacked by your partner.
How to identify that my partner is humiliating me and taking advantage of me
When your partner makes you feel less than, bitter, blames you for everything all the time or treats you badly, and then hides behind “I love you” it identifies a humiliating and abusive person. These types of people behave this way for the following reasons:
- Lack of confidence and self-esteem.
- He doesn’t control his impulses.
- Because I don’t feel any empathy.
- Family dysfunction in childhood.
- Below we will give you the symptoms with which you will identify this type of person. To then find a solution and not allow this abuse anymore.
- Give orders instead of asking nicely.
- He treats you very badly, and you are worth nothing to him.
- It doesn’t let you go out or go where you want. It has even limited you from being with your family.
- He constantly criticizes and teases you.
- He hides important things or things from himself.
- He blames you for everything constantly.
- It’s highly controlling of your life.
- Assaults in some way: physically, verbally, psychologically, or sexually.
- Manipulative, aggressive and rigid.
- It humiliates you publicly.
- It makes comparisons to other women.
- It fixates only on the bad.
What do I do if my partner humiliates me, beats me, and blames me for everything?
If you have identified your partner with any of these behaviors and you don’t know what to do. Follow the steps below to learn how to act when a man humiliates you in any way.
Take action and be aware of this. Putting yourself in a position to know that something is going on and you have to make the decision to stop it. Whether it’s ending the relationship or something else.
Go to friends or family who support you with this and know how to guide you. Also go to professionals in the field such as psychologists or mediators. This is undoubtedly very important, we must know that we cannot do it alone. Help will always be needed, don’t hesitate to tell someone you trust.
Work and renew your self-esteem, confidence, mentality, and spirituality. Start again to take care of yourself and love yourself as a person. This will empower you a lot and you will know that you are worth much more than you imagine. And you will no longer allow anyone to humiliate you.
What do I do to stand up to my partner so that he doesn’t take advantage of me?
To put a stop and not let yourself be humiliated by a man anymore, here’s what you need to do:
- Avoid thoughts of how to humiliate that man. Don’t let yourself be clouded by pain.
- Take the situation seriously. Study the aggressor, and think about how you will confront him, and what is the best way.
- Practice before you do. If you are very submissive, start changing those insecure attitudes to confident and firm.
- Tell people close to you so they can help you.
- Planet, the place and the day. So, he doesn’t feel comfortable or confident to take advantage of you again.
- Have very confident and firm body and verbal language.
- Make a decision early on to start confronting him and don’t let anything he says change your mind. Stick to what you’ve decided and that’s it.
- If he insists, go politely and firmly with your decision.
- Always recognize your worth because you are worth a lot and no one can take that away from you.
